One thing associated with superheros is the fact that they hold a lot of power that can influence the lives of many people for the better or worse, correct?
Well you hold so much power too! In the words you speak, not because you command such authority or respect but its due to the vulnerability of others.
Look at it this way, a depressed person will want to only hear negative things even when he is sitting with a person trying to motivate him. So what happens is that, a filter rises up between the words he sees and hears and the words he wants to believe in.
So if he wants to hear negative things because of his reasons of self sabotaging then he will try to nitpick the sentences the other person says to focus on negatives.
Same reason why someone who had just broken up with a loved one is the one most vulnerable for a one night stand. S/He is so used to being told that they are loved and held closely that if someone even comes close to matching up to that level of effort they desire, then the victim will not hesitate in trusting them with their body. And this becomes a whole lot easier under the influence of alcohol.
Basically this again just emphasizes the importance of habits. What we are used to doing regularly over the coarse of months and years is what we will demand even when we are forced to break that habit. And that desire to have that even when its over is what can get us in trouble because we will be making ourselves vulnerable to taking risky makeshift decisions which wont always work out in our favor.
That's one of the main reason why every successful person stresses so much that you have GOOD HABITS!
To be continued in part two..
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Well you hold so much power too! In the words you speak, not because you command such authority or respect but its due to the vulnerability of others.
Look at it this way, a depressed person will want to only hear negative things even when he is sitting with a person trying to motivate him. So what happens is that, a filter rises up between the words he sees and hears and the words he wants to believe in.
So if he wants to hear negative things because of his reasons of self sabotaging then he will try to nitpick the sentences the other person says to focus on negatives.
Same reason why someone who had just broken up with a loved one is the one most vulnerable for a one night stand. S/He is so used to being told that they are loved and held closely that if someone even comes close to matching up to that level of effort they desire, then the victim will not hesitate in trusting them with their body. And this becomes a whole lot easier under the influence of alcohol.
Basically this again just emphasizes the importance of habits. What we are used to doing regularly over the coarse of months and years is what we will demand even when we are forced to break that habit. And that desire to have that even when its over is what can get us in trouble because we will be making ourselves vulnerable to taking risky makeshift decisions which wont always work out in our favor.
That's one of the main reason why every successful person stresses so much that you have GOOD HABITS!
To be continued in part two..
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